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The Spirit of Happiness / The Happiness of Spirit

7/28/2015

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Activities such as sports or dance exercise the body. Academics such as languages or math stimulate the mind. But what do we do to nurture the spirit? While sports and education may help to nurture the spirit of the child, it is not guaranteed. Much depends on the adults who offer leadership with the children in their care. Much also depends on each families' unique culture (not ethnicity or nationality but how the family communicates — family rituals; traditions and stories; systems of decision making; approaches to opportunities and problems; style of work; style of play; etc.).

Research has shown that connecting your child with a faith community can contribute to his or her overall happiness. Nurturing the spirit, as well as the mind and body, of a child can contribute significantly to a child’s sense of well-being.
In 2007, Mark Holder, Associate Professor of Psychology at UBC Okanagan, and graduate student Judi Wallace tested 315 children aged nine to 12, measuring spirituality and other factors such as temperament and social relations that can affect an individual’s sense of happiness. “Our goal was to see whether there’s a relation between spirituality and happiness,” Holder says. “We knew going in that there was such a relation in adults, so we took multiple measures of spirituality and happiness in children.”

The results were a surprise — 6.5 to 16.5 percent of children’s happiness can be accounted for by spirituality. “From our perspective, it’s a whopping big effect,” says Holder. “I expected it to be much less — I thought their spirituality would be too immature to account for their well-being.”

"Spirituality is easiest to describe as having an inner belief system,” Wallace notes. Although the terms are sometimes used interchangeably, she cautions that “spirituality is not religiosity, which is often more organized, and may be church-based.”  UBC Reports, Vol. 54, No.2, Feb. 7, 2008.
When we focus all our time, energy and resources on nurturing ONLY the body and the mind of a child we neglect essential elements in a child’s growth and development…

  • Children become highly programmed.  As a result, at an early age they begin to exhibit the signs of stress and anxiety that plague adults in our society.

  • Children need down time to discover the world in their own ways.  They need to bury each other in the sand; build tree forts without having to take a 6 week how-to program; play dress-up; lie on the ground and stare up at the clouds, swim outdoors; collect sea shells and rocks; etc.

  • Children need unstructured time with each other and with the adults in their lives to play games; imagine; read stories and poetry; explore; laugh and create.

  • Extraordinary opportunities for learning and growing are lost when we structure every moment of a child’s life.

  • Part of nurturing a child’s spirit involves simply being together as families and communities. “God is in the in-between spaces.”

Happy, spiritually fulfilled children develop a deeper sense of connectedness with family, friends and community. They have greater potential of becoming happier, healthier adults who, because of their sense of connectedness, contribute positively and productively to society. It’s never too soon to start nurturing the spirit of the child -- the effects are contagious and long-lasting in a seriously good way.

Cathy Cryder
Minister with Children, Youth and Families
Dunbar Heights United Church
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Camp Songs to Sing with Your Children

7/21/2015

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Music is so important to our lives. So many memories are connected to the music we listen to, sing with, and are moved by -- music marks and shapes our lives. I can still remember the songs I sang at camp, "This Little Light of Mine" and "It Only takes a Spark,"  to name only two. I can still see in my mind the camp I was at and the people in that circle when I learned and sung those songs.

At Camp Spirit, music is an integral part of our program. And for many of the children the songs continue to be sung outside of camp and many parents have asked us to post the songs they learn. Many of the songs we sing at camp are by Linnea Good. Linnea Good is an award winning Musical Animator and singer-songwriter, and she has generously shared two of her songs for you to sing along to at home!  Please check out her website at www.linneagood.com.
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Jen Cunnings
Minister with Children, Families & Elders
St. Andrew's-Wesley United Church
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I Welcome the Rain: A Mindfulness Practice for Vancouver Parents

7/7/2015

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Ask any parent and they’ll tell you one of the more difficult tasks of parenting is dealing with stressed, anxious and/or distracted children. Add on everyday stressors like a job or career, finances, extracurriculars, caring for aging parents, etc. and soon you’ll have a parent experiencing unhealthy levels of stress too. This mix of demanding lifestyle has led some parents to seek complementary or alternative strategies to medication for their children, as well as seeking self-care strategies to balance the demands of parenthood. Mindfulness practices can help both you and your child to:
  1. Reduce stress and anxiety,
  2. Improve focus and
  3. Deal with difficult emotions.
Mindfulness has no negative side effects and will give you and you child tools you can use for the rest of your lives. Read on to learn more about what Mindfulness means, and how it can positively impact your family now.

What is Mindfulness?
Mindfulness is bringing conscious, nonjudgmental attention to the present moment. Whether you are joyfully witnessing a first in your child’s life, or scrubbing ‘art’ off the living room walls, mindfulness can enhance joy and decrease suffering. 
Why Practice Mindfulness?
Over the last decade working with families, I have noticed that parents and children are experiencing greater levels of stress-related illness than ever before. Increased screen time, highly scheduled lives, and the desire to “get somewhere” are all contributing to this reality. 

Anxiety and (most) stress are a result of where we have been (and what we think about it) or where we are going (and what we think about that). Neither of them are rooted in the here and now. Mindfulness brings attention to the present moment, thus, decreasing stress and anxiety, rebalancing the nervous system, and creating more space for joy. 
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Children are sponges and learn much from osmosis. When parents practice mindfulness, this has a relaxing affect on their children. A child’s nervous system is linked to their parents. When the parents are stressed, the child’s nervous system creates it own stress signals. When parents are relaxed, the child’s nervous system relaxes.

How do I begin?
I would love to tell you that mindfulness takes no time or effort and you will see great results. However, that would be a lie. Mindfulness is not a miracle. Mindfulness, like anything that will change your life for the better in long-term ways, takes commitment. Not unreasonable, impossible, ‘there is no way to fit it into my life’ commitment, but commitment.

Make the time
If you have never practiced meditation or mindfulness before, I suggest beginning with an intention to practice 3-4 times per week for 5-10 minutes. (That could be just 15 minutes per week!) I suggest choosing a specific time of day. Morning often works for people (depending when your kids get up), or just before bed.

Make the space
Choose an area of your house to practice consistently. Choose a cushion, or perhaps set a table with a candle. Be intentional about setting the space as this place will hold the energy of your practice. You may choose a visible place where your children are able to observe your practice, or you may choose a quiet place away from busyness. 

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Do the Practice
This practice is informed by Eline Snel’s book Sitting Still like a Frog and also “The Welcoming Prayer” as taught by Cynthia Bourgeault in Centering Prayer and Inner Awakening. 

Get comfortable in your space. Tell your family what you are up to. Set a timer.
Light a candle and take a few long, slow, deep breaths.
  1. Stillness and Presence: Repeat in your mind, “I am here”. Allow these words to flow in and out on your breath.
  2. Acknowledging:  Check in with your inner landscape. What is the weather report inside?  (Cloudy, sunny, rainy, stormy? etc.)
  3. Welcoming: “I welcome ________ (rain, sun, storm etc)”. Allow this phrase to flow in and out on your breath.
  4. Letting go:  “I let go of rain, sun, storm etc”. This step may or may not happen. You may not be ready to let go. That is okay. Be gentle with this step. The intention is to change how you are relating to it.

    For example: On a rainy Vancouver day we don't try to stop it from raining, but we might change our relationship to the rain by getting an umbrella. We don't try to stop the sun, but we might seek shade.

  5. Align with your inner inner stance: Despite how you may be feeling inside, you can choose the inner stance you take in your life and your parenting. You can choose how you wish to operate in the world. Eline Snel suggests that Presence, Understanding and Acceptance are three qualities that help create a relaxed atmosphere in the home. Perhaps choose one of them to align with each day.
Good luck practicing!  Remember that setting aside time to practice mindfulness is simply building the foundation for practicing in everyday life.
 

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Christina Kinch, BA CYC, CYA-YT
Family Wellness Consultant, Yoga Therapist, Energy Healer

Christina has over 10 years experience working with children, youth and families.  She blends her expertise in child and youth mental health, addictions and family development counselling with her experience in yoga therapy, energy healing and mindfulness meditation to help support and restore health to whole families.

Christina is the founder of Kinchara, a Vancouver-based business that offers programs to families and professionals that explore health from a holistic (mind, body, spirit) and community-based perspective.  Christina also provides individual family sessions as part of the “Whole Family Journey” program.  These sessions are customized to meet the needs of families struggling with anxiety, stress, behavioural challenges, ADHD and more.

For more information about Kinchara and the services Christina offers, please visit christinakinch.com.


If you are interested in learning more about the above practice, how to integrate mindfulness into your daily life, and how to involve your child in mindfulness practices:
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The Importance of Community & Value of Relationships

6/16/2015

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Imagine a world where each person, child/teen/adult, knew for certain that they were accepted and loved for who they are. Imagine a world where each person felt physically, emotionally and spiritually safe. Imagine a world where people strove to live the golden rule — treat others as you wish to be treated yourself — and to love God, love others and love self. We strive to do this in our households and, admittedly, achieve this with varying degrees of success. There are the times that we are rolling along very nicely — “Woo hoo!  Yay us!” And then there are the times when it seems impossible to sustain a sense of loving community at home or anywhere else.
One of the challenges to building healthy community is in all the ways that we are virtually connected and yet isolated from each other. In many neighourhoods, face-to-face engagement is a thing of the past. It is rare that all the community’s children will emerge from their houses for an impromptu game of ‘Kick the Can,’ opting instead for digital substitutes for interaction. 

Also, children’s lives tend to be more scheduled than ever. Extracurricular sports, education and arts programs can significantly enrich a child’s development. However, when a child is over-programmed or over-scheduled there is little time to simply be with others, nourish relationships, and evolve and grow into his or her whole self. 
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When we are fortunate to find a coach, teacher or instructor that is able to engage and nurture the whole child, the community as a whole benefits from their leadership. The team or the classroom become about more than the game or the subject at hand. In inclusive environments children learn to listen to each other and trust that they will have their turn to be listened to. The adult leader becomes a mentor and a holder of safe, sacred space. According to Dr. Rebecca Nye, a researcher, consultant and trainer in the field of children's spirituality:
At school, usually because the teacher has to manage a large group, children learn to put up their hands to get a turn to speak. In practice, the result can be that they focus on planning what they are going to say, and not listening to or being aware of others around them. A more relationship-sensitive, respectful habit can be to pass around a ‘speaking’ stone... to mark whose turn it is to contribute....
At Camp Spirit we strive to engage and nurture the whole child — body, mind and spirit. Spirituality becomes a dynamic between people rather than a characteristic in people. This is paramount because it emphasizes the relationship. In her book Children’s Spirituality, Dr. Rebecca Nye affirms, “the real spiritual work is how we treat each other not the topic of the day. We actively seek to develop communities that model healthy relationships. Children are greeted, engaged and mentored in ways that are respectful and caring. Youth and adult leaders model respectful and caring communication with each other and with the children.

So, why does any of this matter? Over and over again studies reveal that it is the people that know how to work and communicate effectively with others that achieve the greatest success. This cannot be learned in a vacuum. It is essential that children have communities, outside of their households, where they can discover who they are and who they wish to become in a wider context. This is a valuable and very important reason to expose our children to such communities. As a parent, this may be the only reason you need. The amazing thing is there is an even greater residual outcome. The world becomes a better place when our children grow up knowing what it means to be part of a community committed to loving, respecting, caring for and empowering others. Imagine that world....
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Cathy Cryder
Minister with Children, Youth and Families
Dunbar Heights United Church
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